tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34996833.post9036020108073225820..comments2024-03-09T15:23:59.720+00:00Comments on I blog therefore I am!: Why Indians give advice? Sunil Goswamihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12944266367478365902noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34996833.post-3256199686851849662012-12-17T09:44:53.764+00:002012-12-17T09:44:53.764+00:00Sorry folks, I have just found all the unpublished...Sorry folks, I have just found all the unpublished comments that were waiting for moderation. I didn't get the notification emails. So, now that I have published them I will respond to all of them.<br /><br />@Bikram - that is true. Some of the rituals were comforting as well especially when performed by mother or a close family member. <br /><br />@Irfan ji, thank you, I am glad you liked it. Marriage advice is usually the first one people feel justified in giving. Sometimes it amuses me but most times it annoys me. :) <br /><br />@Anupama - Welcome to my blog. Yes, of course, the concern matters, but the expression of concern also matter. Have you had a situation where you got hurt and your "well-wisher" said immediately on seeing you - "Pagal bhi to hai tu, ekdam dhyaan nahin rakhti!" even before they knew what happened?<br /><br />@AH - It is nice to see you back on blogosphere. Thanks for the comment, you know I love long comments. :) <br />Sorry to hear you were not well, hope you took lots of rest and herbal tea and .....:) <br /><br /><br />Sunil Goswamihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12944266367478365902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34996833.post-68899666964807720762012-12-14T15:08:45.490+00:002012-12-14T15:08:45.490+00:00where has my comment disappeared?where has my comment disappeared?Always Happyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03003131478535802670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34996833.post-49551207513269195402012-12-11T16:22:58.696+00:002012-12-11T16:22:58.696+00:00very true......ekdum sahi...and LOLing on Hidustaa...very true......ekdum sahi...and LOLing on Hidustaan mein raai or chai har jagah bina maangey milthi hai.....<br /><br />I am down with flu today.....colleagues at work have sent texts to say hope i feel better soon which is sweet but the friend in India who i was chatting with ( after a very long time) said, garam soup piyo,aaraam karo, ghar se baahar mat niklo aaj,kal ho sakey tho doc ke pass jao...see, we were talking after ages yet she had a list of DOs and Donts for me...your post makes perfect sense to me....<br /><br />Ther are times when we would want to hear a bit more than just sorry to hear or hope you feel better soon..also, there are times when we could do with little less of yeh mat karo, woh mat karo, aisey karo, waise karo etc...<br /><br />Both ways of showing concern are very different and good in their own different ways.<br /><br />Cute little post [hope my comment isnt longer than the actual post :-)]....good to readAlways Happyhttp://dilkibaatblogkesaath.blogspot.co.uk/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34996833.post-67294069808028353462012-12-11T06:39:14.313+00:002012-12-11T06:39:14.313+00:00Its the concern that matters, isnt it?
www.anucre...Its the concern that matters, isnt it?<br /><br />www.anucreations.blogspot.inAnupama K. Mazumderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03860574609893186316noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34996833.post-35973668186167725472012-12-05T11:19:23.465+00:002012-12-05T11:19:23.465+00:00glad you said generic for we are losing a lot of r...glad you said generic for we are losing a lot of rituals etc .. <br /><br />I doubt if people in cities and living the modern life will ask you or make you a adrak ki chaye theese days <br /><br /><br /><a href="http:%5C%5Cmannbikram.wordpress.com" rel="nofollow">Bikram's</a>Bikramhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17320753339263375295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34996833.post-72911347376764883372012-12-04T14:45:11.257+00:002012-12-04T14:45:11.257+00:00indeed there is epidemic of free advise in our soc...indeed there is epidemic of free advise in our society...there are many people who constantly tell others to do things this way or that way and its not just limited to buying books or house hold goods but when one should get married or have children etc etc which is supposed to be individuals own business....and at times these advises become so irritating....:(<br /><br />BTW an interesting topic by you Sunil.... :)Irfanuddinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17931968343851910523noreply@blogger.com